Weekend Agenda

For a full schedule of events, locations, and timing, visit:
xoxo-js.com/the-wedding-weekend

What to Wear

Sebastopol in July can reach highs of 85°F, but evenings cool down quite a bit—so we recommend bringing a layer for after dark.

Most of the celebration will take place on paved stone paths, but dinner will be on the lawn. Please plan your footwear accordingly: sharp heels may sink into the grass and could make walking tricky.

Travel Tips

Flying in? Please note that airports now require a REAL ID.
If you don’t have one, bring a valid passport to fly.

Night-of Transportation

Cars may be left at the venue overnight—please don’t drink and drive! Cars must be picked up by noon the next day.

We’ll provide transportation:

  • From the venue to the optional after-party: 10:30–11:00 p.m.

  • From the after-party to your lodging (within a 10-mile radius): 12:00–4:00 a.m.

Note: The after-party is for guests under 40 only

Sunday Pool Party (Optional)

Wind down with us on Sunday from 12:00–4:00 p.m. at The Burns House (170 Pleasant Hill Rd, Sebastopol), generously hosted by John & Jayne Burns.

This is a casual, no-frills hangout—so bring snacks and drinks if you have them. If you're local, we’d love it if you could bring a pool towel.

A Quick Reminder on Guests

Your party includes the individuals named on your invitation, unless we spoke to you individually about bringing a Plus One. We have a limited number of seats and meals and cannot accommodate unexpected guests. Thank you for understanding!